Closing time.

Another year comes and another year goes just like that. 2012 is over. We wake up and realize suddenly another year is behind us. Where did all the time go we ask ourselves? Just add it to the list of questions I'm still searching answers for. There are some answers I've found over the last year though. I found that the more I know the more I realize how little control I have over time.  Time is an interesting concept because we can't stop it and we cant speed it up.   Even though there are countless times we've wished for it to stop. Like the day we find out someone close to us has died or is in the hospital.  The older I get the more I realize that we can't get it back either.  I've found out many times that hard way that you can only take people for face value. People come and people go popping in and out of our lives.  How many times have you known someone that you used to be close with but since times passed you realize you have nothing in common with them after all. Its happened to me before.  Think about all those past relationships or friendships that have been lost over a long period of time.  Time was in control. You begged and pleaded but it was useless. . How many times have you been waiting on someone to do something for you but it never happens. After awhile we learn that we can only count on few. Their are some people we let in and some we do our best to push away. The ones we let in call it luck, or call it fate. Maybe after all it was supposed to happen. Thats a question beyond me. When we let the right person in our lives time seems to stands still. You ask that person if it was supposed to happen that way but they are trying to find the same answer you are. They are so different than you but at the same time everything that you need. They give you hope that everything is going to be okay. You start to believe that it is going to be okay. You both come to realize that everything that we do in life is about timing. The people we meet and the people that we've lost. This pas year was a year about letting go of the wrong people in my life and letting the right people in. After awhile you'll know who is supposed to be in your life and who is not. The ones who you let in your life keep them close because you never know when they'll be gone. The beauty of life is to realize that people come and people go and the ones who we let in our the ones who will make all the difference.